8. Develop your own Empowerment Plan.

a. List the types of situations in which you will insist on being involved in decisions.

b. Select one type of situation for practicing decision-making (experiencing empowerment).

c. Number the items on the list according to priority. The simpler situations (e.g., where to eat, which television show to watch) should have high priorities. When you have gained confidence (are feeling somewhat empowered), then you are ready to attempt the more difficult situations that involve your relationship with someone who is accustomed to making decisions for you.