1. As you listen to people talk, think about the areas in which you struggle? Why do you think these are struggles for you?

2. When you are in a conversation, is there an area listed that others tend to do that frustrates you? Why?

3. Do you agree with all 10 or are there some missing or some you don't agree with?

1. Don't Multitask in your mind while listening (Be Present)
2. Don't Pontificate (i.e. express yourself in a pompous self-righteous manner)
3. Use Open Ended Questions
4. Go with the Flow
5. If You Don't Know, Admit it
6. Try Not to Repeat Yourself
7. Don't Equate Your Experience with Theirs
8. Stay out of the Weeds (intricate details)
9. Listen
10. Be Brief (same as #8)