1. Do you have "ghost and angels" in your life? How have they influenced your parenting, caregiving, or intimate relationships? 2. How do you think early attachment experiences influence adult romantic relationships or friendships? Can these patterns be changed? How? 3. Have you had relationships that helped you understand how your early experiences influenced your adult patterns of relating to others? Have you had relationships that helped you "work through" issues rooted in negative early influences? 4. Have you experienced a jolt of oxytocin? Can you think of a time when you had a physical urge to nurture or care for someone or something? 5. Did you find patterns of adversity and resilience in your family histories? Did you gain insight into some of your family dynamics? Are there sources of concern? Of inspiration? How does knowing about intergenerational patterns influence your thoughts and plans for your future