Anne and Thomas, an African American couple in their early 70's , was referred by their church minister. They have been married for 45 years, have 4 grown children and 2 grandchildren. Anne tells you that she feels that Thomas no longer loves her. "I feel he'd rather be with his friends at church then spend time at home with me". Thomas tells you, "if she wasn't so negative and always complaining, maybe I'd want to be home more". Both Anne and Thomas were brought up in tumultuous divorced homes, and swore they would never follow in their parent's footsteps.

What is a diagnosis for the couple and each individual?