Based on a factor loading of .40, which items are cross-loading?

I get upset easily I have frequent mood swings I am relaxed most of the time (R) I seldom feel blue (R) lam the life of the party | talk to a lot of different people at parties I keep in the background (R) I don't talk a lot (R) l have a vivid imagination I do not have a good imagination (R) l have difculty understanding abstract ideas (R) I am not interested in abstract ideas (R) I often forget to put things back in their proper place (R) I get chores done right away I like order I make a mess of things (R) I am not really interested in others (R) I am not interested in other people's problems (R) I feel others' emotions I can s mathise with others' feelin