Carlos, a 35-year-old male, has decided to attend a counseling group in order to gain greater insight into how he can cope with some of his personal problems. He goes through the screening process of the group, understands the rules and responsibilities of being a group member, and feels prepared for the group. Notwithstanding his interest in beginning the group, Carlos feels some angst about what to expect from it. He is concerned that the group members may think his problems are insignificant and is worried that the group members may not like him or what he has to say. He also wonders about proper etiquette and holds some skepticism about whether this group experience will truly help him. The following are some questions that Carlos has asked himself: How safe am I in this group? Can I risk sharing my thoughts and feelings with other group members? Do I belong in this group? Who can I identify with, and from whom do I feel disconnected? Will I be rejected or accepted by other members? Can I really be myself in a room full of strangers?

1. How might Carlos learn more about the group so he knows what to expect?
2. What would you say are Carlos's primary tasks?
3. If you were Carlos's group leader, what are some things that you could do in the first few sessions to help him feel connected to the group as well as quell his skepticism about whether the group experience will help him?