• Discuss a current or past personal friendship
• Discuss this relationship in regard to each of the three dialectical tensions:
  • Autonomy vs. connection
  • Openness vs. closedness
  • Novelty vs. predictability
• Which tensions did you have to work on managing most often?
• Where some tensions easier than others to manage?
• How did you manage them?
• What could you have done to manage them better?
• What other tensions do you see in that relationship, anything that wasn't discussed