Each of us engage the world differently. We each bring a perspective that reflects our own experiences and relationships. In order to 'grow' in our understanding of communication and the role it plays in earning the trust of those we work with and being perceived as effective within our work environment we must first take a close and objective 'look' at ourselves. This may be difficult... but I promise it will be worth it. Search the multitude of reputable and scholarly websites that offer questions you may wish to use to ask those you work with and have them reflect on your current effectiveness. You may wish to discuss this with a close co-worker or colleague. As you are willing to hear (and read) how others perceive your effectiveness at work and, you understand will be able to better appreciate how you might improve to be even more effectiv