I did notice that there was no financial cost listed, and while my own situation may be different from yours or if this falls into the opportunities category I felt like it was an important cost to highlight. While we are in school working full time is difficult, if not impossible in some capacity. This places an enormous burden of our support circles as you pointed out. The support that we receive from those who help us is invaluable, but often those connections become stressed because of our cost on them. Hopefully our spouses don't feel this way, but I feel it is worth mentioning. What costs do you incur from your motivated behavior? Give a recent example