i know you want to speak with me in regard to my issues with my colleagues. i am not sure what concerns is$.$ inthought it was okay to have lively debates on the team. isnt that what makes a teamis all about? however if this is getting out of hand. im certainly willing to change. what do you think the issue is a$)$ you are not managing relationship with others well. you need to create strong personal bonds and limit your debating tio work $-$related issues b$)$ you need to act with more honesty and integrity. this will help others trust you more c$)$ your self esteem seems to be low. thats what is making you so negative about things and not allowing you to take independet positions