Imagine a friend tells you they miss a sibling who is abroad in the military. Which response would indicat the most effective listening according to research by Eval and colleagues cited in Chapter $1?$

"I know that when my brother was in the service I really missed him."

"Anybody could feel that way."

$"$If I were you I know l$\text{'}$d miss him, too.".

"I remember all the stories you told me about how close the two of you are."