In your 3-5 year old room at a rural centre you have a range of dress-up clothes which the children love to play with. The theme has been princesses and princes and the dramatic play area contained a number of outfits including many fairy princess accessories. One afternoon, a young boy called Jake decides to dress in high heels, a long flowing dress and a tiara. Jake's father who is a farmer arrives to pick him up as Jake is happily modelling his outfit. The child's father seems furious and tells his son to get undressed as it is time to go. You ask if there is a problem. As Jake and his father walk out the door, dad says to you, "Are you trying to make him a bloody poof". Post a list of actions - that might help resolve your chosen ethical dilemma. There would be quite a number of actions that might occur over the following months to realistically reach a resolution (meetings, professional development, communication books, information sharing with parents, etc.). Make sure each role's voice is considered in the list of actions: how will the child's voice be heard, the parent's voice, the staff member's voice