Mid-way down the group therapy programme for sex addiction, a male member was sharing about how his high sex drive is affecting his relationship with his wife. As he spoke about the struggles, he began to complain how the unsatisfactory sex life made him look for sexual services elsewhere uncontrollably. He blamed his wife and women in general for not respecting the needs of men like himself. As he ranted on, the other female members in the group began to respond with critical comments, and some even insulted him for driving his wife like a sex slave. The tension was high. However, the leader also knows that this is a good opportunity to open up more honest discussion about compulsive sexual behaviours for this group. Heng Soon understands that he has to intervene soon to prevent it from becoming a meaningless battle of the sexes. Despite the conflicting views among the two camps, the leader is aware that for members to voice their honest opinions about this sensitive issue, it takes a lot of trust and courage to do so. 

Illustrate how the leader can apply the here and now techniques to facilitate a more meaningful discussion on this sensitive topic.Demonstrate in detail how the here and now techniques are being executed.