Most people want to be "good" people, yet often do things, typically minor, of which they are not proud and would not want others to know about because their actions would reflect poorly on their character. How does this happen? Think of something you have done that you now believe was wrong. What rationalizations did you give yourself at the time? Have you ever done something that you know in retrospect that you shouldn't have but you did it because you wanted to help out a friend, a family member, or an organization you belonged to