Navigating an interpersonal dispute with a close acquaintance about criticisms of a mutual housemate, I employed the approach/avoidance tactic. Understanding my friend's perspective, I expressed my viewpoint, aiming for shared interests and consensus. Open and exploratory communication helped us let go of preconceived ideas, ensuring mutual understanding. Initiating a conversation about potential remedies, focused listening and collaborative problem-solving led to mutual understanding and respect. Convinced that approach/avoidance was the right strategy, I wonder, have you encountered similar conflicts and how did you approach resolution? include reference