Please explain "The sound relationship house theory" and share your favorite quote and why?

1. Build love maps. A "love map" is a road map of one's partner's inner world, built by asking open-ended questions.

2. Build the fondness and admiration system by expressing affection and respect in small, everyday moments.

3. Turn toward instead of away or against by noticing a partner's bids for emotional connection.

4. Allow positive sentiment override, which means not taking neutral or negative partner actions personally (if processes 1, 2, and 3 are not working, negative sentiment override results, in which even neutral acts are perceived as negative).

5. Take a three-pronged approach toward managing conflict by: (a) using a gentle approach in presenting complaints, accepting influence, physiological soothing, and compromise; (b) resolving past emotional injuries with an Aftermath of a Fight or Regrettable Incident exercise, and (c) by establishing a dialogue with perpetual problems that examines the existential dreams within conflict.

6. Honor one another's life dreams.

7. Build the shared meaning system by establishing formal and informal rituals of connection, supporting one another's life roles, creating shared goals and values, and common views of symbols.