Shutterstock One in three South Africans has had sex with a co-worker somewhere along the line, according to Health24s Great South African Sex Survey, so we should know by now that sex with a colleague or the boss isnt just about stolen kitchen kisses and paperclip hearts. Get it wrong, and your workplace romance could sicken and die all too easily. Office romances most often end in grief, and are always highly complex, with unforeseen complications, and not a good idea, warns Professor Michael Simpson, aka Cybershrink. But of course few of us are strictly sensible when it comes to romance and that cute guy in the IT department. If you're determined to explore a relationship with him