Take one hour in a quiet place where you can do some reflection in solitude. Create a draft of your leadership story. Consider the following chapter "headings":

Chapter 1: The Early Years. Recall your formative years. How did your early personal experiences and family circumstances shape who you are today? What early messages, lessons, or values were inculcated during this life phase?

Chapter 2: Angels and Heroes. Describe two people who have made a difference in your life- one from your personal life and one from your work life. What "leadership lessons" did you acquire from each person?

Chapter 3: Leadership Courage. Think of a time in your life when your values were significantly challenged. How did you resolve or work through this situation?

Chapter 4: Your Legacy. Everyone says it differently, but what do you think is the "true joy of life"? What personal values or wisdom would you want to pass on to those you care most deeply about?