The Power of Fantasy Assignment:

Summary:

The power of fantasy can be quite compelling for individuals and couples. Fantasy can be based in reality, can be something that has happened or can or does happen in reality, or it can be completely fictional. Fantasies can be sexual, non-sexual, romantic, individual, couple based, group based, etc. Research has shown that fantasy can be quite helpful for individuals and couples. Although fantasy can be quite helpful, for many, they are often uncomfortable thinking about them or sharing them. However, sometimes the sharing of fantasy can be quite helpful in a relational context. Sometimes therapy is the venue for such sharing. Please, keep all of this in mind as you complete this activity.

Directions:

• Construct your own brief fantasy in your mind. Please, open yourself up to whatever fantasy you are comfortable envisioning.
• After you have thought about a fantasy, if comfortable, please write a brief synopsis of the fantasy for part I. If not comfortable, then just be sure to keep it in mind when answering the questions that follow.
• Answer the questions in part II in paragraph form; paragraphs consist of a minimum of 3-5 sentences. Your answers should show that you comprehend what is being asked, you are utilizing critical thinking skills, and use knowledge you have gained from your text(s)/power points in class pertaining to fantasy.

Part I: Briefly describe your fantasy.

Part II: Questions:

1. Is this a fantasy you have envisioned before? Yes No

2. Was this fantasy taken from a reality-based experience in which you have engaged?

3. Do you believe fantasy is healthy in the life of the individual? What about for the couple? Why or why not?

4. Do you believe fantasy is healthy for you? Why or why not?

5. What is the difference between fantasy and reality? Do people who fantasize about certain sexual behaviors or encounters necessarily want to engage in these experiences? Why or why not?

6. Do you think just about any sexual behaviors or encounters are okay to fantasize about as long as they are not acted upon? Or do you believe there are certain sexual behaviors that are even off limits in the form of fantasy? Elaborate.

The answers should be detailed and professional.