1. To prepare for this discussion, review the Attachment Styles information on the Infancy and Childhood page, and read this article from Greater Good magazine about Cultivating a More Secure Attachment Style.
2. Think about how connected (or disconnected) you feel to this class and the people in it.
3. Choose 3 questions to answer (and share with the class) from the options in either Set I or Set II from this list (you may want to try some questions from Set III with a close friend or partner). Make sure you choose questions you feel comfortable answering "in front of the class." Write out your answers so that you've thought them through beforehand and have had an opportunity to "rehearse" your answers.

Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?

2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?

3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?

4. What would constitute a "perfect" day for you?

5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?

6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?

7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?

8. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.

9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?

10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?