When creating a plan for an entire family, we want to be specific. In my professional opinion, this is multi-layered. We need to have each of them in individual counseling as well as family counseling. For Bonnie and Arnie, we need a team that focuses on their specific needs; dietitian, someone that specializes in eating disorders as well as autism for Arnie. While this question specifically addresses boundaries and co-dependency, you cannot just address those things without addressing everything. Thoughts?