Which type of capitalization response is beneficial to the person sharing the positive event and to the relationship between that person and the recipient of the good news?

active-constructive passive-constructive

active-destructive passive-destructive

One of your close friends is having a birthday party. Upon receiving the invitation, you realize that you will be out of town at a family reunion that weekend and unable to make it. When you tell your friend, they seem genuinely disappointed - but they tell you that they understand and they hope you can hang out some other time. What degree of acceptance/rejection is this? Maximal inclusion Active inclusion Passive inclusion Ambivalence