Writing Reflection Journal No. 10 Analyze one of your most important relationships. Begin by identifying the individual and briefly describing the relationship Then use the principles described in Chapter 9 to analyze this relationship Consider the variables of why we form relationships (attraction similarity, complementanty, proximity, etc.) How did these variables function at the start of your relationship? How do the vanables function now that you have a more established relationship? 1. Discuss your relationship in terms of Knapp's 10 Stages of Coming Together/Apart. How did you move from one stage to another? Where are you now? What tells you this? 2. How do the various dialectical tensions function in this relationship? Give at least two specific examples and describe how you managed the tension 3. How do you maintain this relationship? What could you do to improve this maintenance? 4. How have you repaired the relationships after transgressions? What has been particularly effective? Writing Reflection Journal No. 10 Analyze one of your most important relationships. Begin by identifying the individual and briefly describing the relationship Then use the principles described in Chapter 9 to analyze this relationship Consider the variables of why we form relationships (attraction similarity, complementanty, proximity, etc.) How did these variables function at the start of your relationship? How do the vanables function now that you have a more established relationship? 1. Discuss your relationship in terms of Knapp's 10 Stages of Coming Together/Apart. How did you move from one stage to another? Where are you now? What tells you this? 2. How do the various dialectical tensions function in this relationship? Give at least two specific examples and describe how you managed the tension 3. How do you maintain this relationship? What could you do to improve this maintenance? 4. How have you repaired the relationships after transgressions? What has been particularly effective