How would you answer the questions posed in the following:

“I have frequent conflict with my friends and spouse; is there something wrong with me?”

“I just ignore conflicts whenever they come up; is that a good strategy?”

“Why do I always feel like I’m the one who lost, even when I get my way?”

“I like to keep things stirred up because it helps me feel alive; is that wrong?”

“I don’t like conflict, so I let the other person have his or her way; is there a problem with that?”