3 One of your co-workers brought along his friend to lunch. When discussing his new female boss, the friend says, "Yeah, she got the job just because she's an ethnic woman. There's no way that someone like me had a chance given her pedigree. And she now has the nerve to act like we're all one big happy team and the rest of us should accept her leadership. I'm doing my best to make it hard for her to succeed." It was uncomfortable for you just to hear this. Your co-worker looks dismayed but isn't saying anything. What do you do or say? Will you just let the comment go, or do something more?