1. What do you think about the process Ravi's dad describes? Explain 2. What do you think about what makes a good mate? (Based on the discussion Ravi has with the groom when he asks the groom, "how do you know she's the one?) Would that be a good basis for a decision for you? 3. What changes Ravi's mind about looking for a wife? Do you agree with his decision? (do you think the process works? Would it work for you?)