A middle school student (Charmaine) where you work as a Child and Youth Care Professional tells you they are feeling confused. Their best friend just told Charmaine they want her to start calling them Jake, but Charmaine has always known them as Mia. Charmaine wants to know if that means Jake is gay. Answer Charmaine's question and in doing so explain the difference between sexual orientation and gender identity. Find one online resource (YouTube video, story book, website, cartoon) that explains gender identity and affectional (sexual) orientation.