Create non-defensive responses to the following criticisms posed by the person in parentheses:

1. You look terrible! (Spoken by your parent)
2. You are always late. (A coworker at the office)
3. Your work was not submitted on time. (A university professor)
4. You're acting like a jerk. (Your significant other)
5. You're a bad parent. (Your child)
6. What you said was really hurtful and unkind. (A sibling or close relative)

Number your responses and be sure not only to include your non-defensive message, but also the strategy that you utilized.