Encouraged/Discouraged Someone to Make Their Own Choices (self-reflect) Reflect on a situation where you encouraged/discouraged someone to make their own choices. Sample about the encounter. Include a description of the experience. Some dynamics to consider: your relationship with the person, being there for the person, the person's well-being and suffering, your compassion and empathy. Some questions to consider: Did you gain any insights about yourself? How did your experience change you? Comment on how you were personally affected by this situation.