In order to absolve ourselves of fault during conflict, we:

$*$ Decline to accept the Cardinal Rules unless our Other also accepts them.

$*$ Act on the assumption that the conflict is caused by an imbalance of power between us and our Other.

$*$ Use projection to attribute the cause of the conflict to facts about ourselves over which we have no control.

$*$ Refrain from escalating a conflict from Blip to Crisis unless provoked.

$*$ None of the Above