Let's brainstorm a list of ways that people fight dirty-that is, make a list of unproductive conflict strategies. Be as specific as possible. Next, shift your focus and brainstorm productive conflict management strategies, again being specific. Then, answer the following questions: Which unproductive conflict-management strategies have you used? Why? What was the effect of using these strategies? If someone used this tactic on you, how do you think you would feel? Which productive strategies have you used? What was the effect of using these strategies?