My boyfriend of seven years did not Do you consider scenario 2 to be enabling? Explain why come home last night. He was or why not and share what you feel the family member arrested for possession of heroin. I ANSWER in the space below and press SUBMIT when finished. feel so stupid for not knowing, but as read earlier, denial is a fun place to visit but a dangerous place to stay. I feel alone in this battle, because no one wants to help him. I feel like I'm all he has left, but he is ruining my life. I work three jobs to save us financially. He too, blames me for everything wrong in his life. His addiction has put me into a severe depression. I can't talk to my family or my friends, because they all hate him. They think I should just cut him out of my life. I don't think I could live with myself if he overdoses and dies because I left. I don't know what to do. Am I enabling him