REFLECTION 7.4

You might gain insight about power dynamics in coaching by reflecting on how power issues played out in your personal life. Consider your patterns and responses to power dynamics throughout your school and work history. Are you aware when power is becom-ing an issue for you? What is your experience with influence? How do you respond to others attempts to influence you? What works for you? What doesnt? What kind of relationship do you need to have with others to allow them to influence you? How do you use power in relationships? How do you feel when you realize another person is letting you influence her behavior? Are you conscious of how you may influence people unintentionally?