The server took Emily and Sarah's lunch orders, and then Sarah sat glowering at her sister.

"You know, Emily,I came here expecting you to support me and make me feel better, not to have you tell me I make irrational decisions. I don't know what you were thinking!I'm a total wreck, and you're piling onto me by telling me things Idon't want to hear!"

"I'm so sorry that your feelings are hurt, Sarah,"Emily replied. "It was not my goal to pile on, as you say. I was hoping that, by telling you what Isee, you would maybe get some new clarity about your life."

"But it's not just what you said; it's how you saidit. Youonly call me 'honey' like that when you're going to say something harsh,"Sarah replied. "Plus, Isaw onlinethat you went out with your friends last nightand didn't invite me, and Iknow you must have been excluding me on purpose."

Emily was shocked. She always thought that calling Sarah "honey" would soften the blow, which is all she ever wants.And last night had been totally spur of the moment!She hadn't even thought to invite Sarah.

Clearly, Sarah was feeling the effects of Emily's behaviors, both intentional and unintentional.

Select the behavior that was intentional communication on Emily's part.