Using a divorce situation, give a detailed reflection on a first counseling session with the man. Give an introduction with a nice hook. Define counseling with in-text citations. Identify, discuss and analyze this event. Reflect on skills that were incorrectly used such as building rapport, active listening and being judgmental (give definitions for watch of them and provide in-text citations). State how and why these should be correctly used (provide in-text citations). Reflect on techniques and theories that were incorrectly used also. State how and why these should be correctly used (provide in-text citations). Conclude by formulating an action plan as it relates to any area of development needed to demonstrate an effective counselor. Include in-text citations and place references to the bottom of the page.