"You have just found out that you are HIV+. You can't believe it. You only had sex with your spouse and have not had any other contact with the virus. You are shocked, angry, and in denial. You are not thinking of suicide. You are thinking about killing your spouse although you have no definite plan. You kicked him out but now you think you'd like to hunt him down. The only thing keeping you from doing it is your four-year-old daughter. You told your sister and she asked you to see the counselor which you have grudgingly done."