you said, "but I also agree with the fact that there are resources out there to help out people with congenital abnormalities and that they can offer different perspective on how to adjust and adapt to one's condition." While there are resources, many times, they are not enough. Parents struggle with things such. as transportation, personal care equipment, cost of insurance, medical supplies and sometimes something as simple as help. While we have come a long way there is so much more that needs to be done... (don't get me started on something as simple as handicapped parking....)