Your significant other, Bobbi, has recently joined your student club. You really want to see Bobbi succeed and are sure that Bobbi will be an asset to the group. A number of fellow club members comment that Bobbi keeps making mistakes that are hurting the group. "What do you mean?" you say, "Bobbi has been great!" In this case, your love for Bobbi might be harming your ability to see Bobbi's mistakes. This is an example of a(n)