2. The research on attraction patterns comes to some pretty strong conclusions about what attracts us to each other as couples. Some of the biggest findings: Men who seek women prioritize looks; women who seek men prioritize ability to provide resources; and everyone prioritizes intelligence, kindness, honesty, and sense of humor. How does your own personal experience match with these research results?

Do these findings describe who you are attracted to? Do they describe who your friends find themselves attracted to? Do they describe the reasons why others are attracted to you?