13. Psychological Positions I'm OK, you're OK. - Acceptance of ______and _________ , a healthy outlook. I'm OK, you're not OK. - Tendency to ___________, blames, and put ___________others. I'm not OK, you're OK. - Feelings of _____ self-esteem or lack of ____________compared to others. I'm not OK, you're not OK. - Feelings of low self-esteem and loss of ___________in living, with feelings of confusion and _______________.