1. Identify a situation in your life where you need to solve a problem with someone, or a situation for creating an opportunity. Consider the situation from the other person's point of view: What results might be a "win" for them? Make a list of these.
2. Make a list of results that would be a win for you.
3. How might you resolve the situation in a mutually beneficial way?
4. Imagine what a win-win agreement might look like for both of you.