When someone in a conversation listens to another person talk about a delicious meal they cooked, and then immediately shifts the focus of attention back to themselves $($e$.$g$.,$ "I went to New York over the weekend"$)$ or "one$-$ups" the other person $($e$.$g$.,$ "I baked a perfect five$-$layer cake"$),$ they are displaying:

narcissistic listening

distorted listening

aggressive listening

eavesdropping