Why did Mr$.$ Shen not seek help for his deteriorating hearing prior to his wife's urging after the car accident?$2.$ What are some possible reasons for Mr$.$ Shen's refusing to return to the audiologist and follow the prescribed course of action?$3.$ Whose perspective is more important here $--$ Mr$.$ Shen's or his wife's? Does he have the "right" to ignore the possibility of improving his quality of life through rehabilitation?