1. Your Investment in Relationships What have you invested in your closest friendship, romantic relationship, and workplace relationship?

a. How much time have you spent in each relationship?

Friend: Romance:

Work:

b. How many decisions have you made to accommodate the other person?

Friend: Romance:

Work:

c. How much money have you spent?

Friend: Romance:

Work:

d. To what extent is your history entwined with that of the other person?

Friend: Romance:

Work:

e. How much trust have you given each person?

Friend: Romance:

Work:

f. How much support have you given each person?

Friend: Romance:

Work:

g. Do the other person’s investments roughly equal yours?

Friend: Romance:

Work:

h. What would be lost if these relationships ended? Could you recover your investments?

Friend: Romance:

Work: