2. Artifacts and Identity

• How did artifacts in your childhood contribute to your gender identity? What kinds of toys did your parents give you? Did they ever discourage you from playing with particular kinds of toys? Did you ask for toys that aren’t the ones society prescribes for your sex (boys asking for dolls, girls for train sets)? Did your parents let you have the toys?

• Now, think about the clothing your parents gave you. If you’re a woman, did your parents expect you to wear frilly dresses and stay clean? If you’re a man, did your parents give you clothes meant for rough play and getting dirty?

• Do you have artifacts that reflect your ethnic identity? What objects are part of your celebrations and spiritual observances? Do you have any jewelry or clothes that reflect your ethnic heritage?